Safety

Overview
Know who you're dealing with
Keep personal information private
Sexting and intimate content
Non-consensual imagery, revenge porn, and deepfakes
If your content was reposted without permission
Scams, sextortion, and financial fraud
Meeting someone in person
Protecting your account
Reporting and blocking on sextflirt
If something harmful has already happened
Resources and helplines
Contact

This page is the short version of everything we wish everyone knew before posting, chatting, or meeting anyone through sextflirt.com. Read it once, come back to it when something feels off. Nothing in here is legal advice, and following every rule perfectly doesn't make the internet safe, but it does make it a lot less dangerous.

If you're in immediate physical danger, stop reading this and call your local emergency number.

1. OVERVIEW

sextflirt.com is a directory where adults post and share content with other adults. Because it connects to the rest of the internet, the risks that come with it aren't theoretical: unwanted reposting of your photos, scams, sextortion, stolen identities, non-consensual imagery, and in a minority of cases, physical harm when meetings go wrong.

We moderate the Site as aggressively as we can, but moderation is reactive by nature. The single biggest thing that keeps you safe is you, making informed choices about what to share, who to trust, and how to walk away.

This page covers the main risks and what to do about them. If you only remember one thing: you can always stop, block, and walk away. No interaction is worth your safety, your money, or your peace of mind.

2. KNOW WHO YOU'RE DEALING WITH

Every profile on sextflirt.com is created by a person you don't know. That applies even to profiles that look polished, have a lot of activity, or share content you like. Until you have independent reason to believe otherwise, treat every account as an unknown.

Some things to look at before you engage:

Account history. Is the profile brand new with a ton of posts, or has it been around and been active consistently?
Photo consistency. Do the photos look like the same person across posts, or do they look grabbed from different sources?
Reverse image search. If something feels off, paste the profile photo into a reverse-image tool. Scammers reuse stolen photos across many profiles and services, and a reverse search often catches it.
Urgency and pressure. Accounts that rush you, that insist you move off-platform immediately, or that want something from you right away, are much more likely to be trouble.
Asking for money, ever. A stranger asking you for money, gift cards, crypto, or "help me fix my account" is a scam. Always.

Even with all of the above, you still can't verify that the person behind the profile is who they say they are. Assume you cannot, and behave accordingly.

3. KEEP PERSONAL INFORMATION PRIVATE

Things you put into a profile bio, a caption, a comment, or a DM on another platform are things someone can find, archive, and use later. Be deliberate.

What not to share publicly:

Your real full name, unless that's your whole public brand.
Your home or work address, or anything that pinpoints them.
Your workplace name, your university, or the name of your kid's school.
Your phone number.
Your financial information: bank accounts, credit cards, crypto wallet addresses, payment app handles that are tied to your legal name.
Government identifiers: social security numbers, passport numbers, licence numbers. Nothing on sextflirt.com will ever legitimately require them.

What can be extracted from a photo even if you didn't mean to share it:

EXIF metadata, which can contain GPS coordinates. Most modern photo apps strip this automatically, but not all. Before posting content shot on your phone, check.
Background details: a mailbox number, a car plate, a uniform logo, a distinctive window view, a school in the distance. People on the internet will notice, and some of them will look.
Reflections: in mirrors, windows, TV screens, eyes. Reflections have identified people more than once.
Timing patterns: posting every day at the same hour from the same location tells people more than you might think.

If you want to post explicit content and still stay hard to identify, frame tight, avoid visible faces and tattoos, avoid unique backgrounds, and never cross-link your adult account with your real-name accounts.

4. SEXTING AND INTIMATE CONTENT

Sharing intimate content with another person, by DM, through a linked platform, or on sextflirt itself, always carries the risk that it ends up somewhere you didn't authorise. Screenshots happen. Cloud backups happen. "Private" chats can be exfiltrated. Breakups happen. Servers get breached.

If you still want to share, reduce exposure:

Don't show your face in the same frame as identifying marks or explicit content, and never in the same frame as both.
Avoid distinguishing features like unusual tattoos, scars, birthmarks, and jewellery that would appear on a legal ID.
Remove or obscure metadata before sending anything.
Do not say yes to "let me see you on camera first" from strangers who haven't earned trust. Recorded video is the raw material for deepfake creation.
Set expectations in writing about what the recipient is and is not allowed to do with the content. This isn't a legal shield, but it changes what happens if things go wrong.
Assume permanence. Once a file leaves your device, you cannot take it back.

If you're being pressured into sending intimate content and you don't want to, that's not negotiation, that's coercion. Stop engaging. Block. Report the profile.

5. NON-CONSENSUAL IMAGERY, REVENGE PORN, AND DEEPFAKES

Non-consensual intimate imagery (NCII) is any sexually explicit image or video of a real person shared without that person's consent. That includes content captured without consent, content shared privately and then leaked, and AI-generated or edited content that depicts a real person sexually without their permission (deepfakes).

All of it is banned on sextflirt.com without exception.

If you discover NCII of yourself on sextflirt.com:

Take a note of the exact URL and a screenshot for your records, but do not share the content further yourself.
Use the report button on the post to flag it. Select a reason that clearly indicates non-consensual content.
Contact us through the contact form in the footer with "NCII removal" in the subject line, and include the URL. Urgent cases go to the top of the queue.
Consider submitting a case to StopNCII.org, a free service that fingerprints known NCII so it can be blocked across participating platforms.
If you are in the United States, the Cyber Civil Rights Initiative operates a free legal referral line: cybercivilrights.org. Equivalent services exist in many other countries.

If you discover NCII of someone else, the right move is the same report-and-flag path. Do not repost, do not share to "warn" people, and do not try to confront the uploader. That makes things worse for the victim.

Deepfakes of real people are treated identically to non-consensual imagery, even if technically "no image was taken." The person's consent to appear sexually in a depiction is the standard, not whether a camera was involved.

6. IF YOUR CONTENT WAS REPOSTED WITHOUT PERMISSION

If someone reposted your content on sextflirt.com, you have two overlapping paths.

Copyright-based takedown (strongest option if you created the content):

Use our DMCA page. A valid DMCA notice triggers fast removal and escalates repeat offenders toward account termination.
You'll need the URL of the infringing post, a description of the original work, and a sworn statement that you have the rights. It's a legal process, but it's the one platforms are required to respond to.

Content removal (works whether or not you own the copyright):

Use the report button on the post and select the relevant reason.
Contact us through the footer contact form with the URL and a brief description. We will remove content that clearly shouldn't be there, and we'll do it faster if you tell us exactly where it is.

You do not have to choose one path over the other. If you own the content and you didn't consent to it being there, send both a DMCA notice and a report. The DMCA gives us legal certainty, the report gives context.

7. SCAMS, SEXTORTION, AND FINANCIAL FRAUD

Adult-content platforms attract scammers because the audience is engaged and sometimes vulnerable. These are the patterns we see most often.

Classic romance / advance-fee scam. Someone you've never met in person declares feelings fast, builds an emotional connection, and eventually needs help with money: a plane ticket, a visa fee, a medical bill, a customs problem. It is always a scam. Nobody you have not met in person needs money from you.

Fake verification / paywall. A "creator" offers to send you content once you sign up to a suspicious site, buy a gift card, or pay a "verification fee" that supposedly proves you're not a bot. Real platforms don't work like that.

Investment and crypto bait. A profile with suggestive photos steers the conversation toward "financial freedom" and sends you to a trading platform run by the same people. The platform shows fake profits until you try to withdraw, and then it eats your money.

Sextortion. You are told that the sender has recordings of you doing something compromising, and you need to pay in crypto or the content will be sent to your contacts. The vast majority of these messages are bluffs, sent in bulk. Do not respond, do not pay, do not negotiate. Paying confirms that you are worth targeting again.

"I have your nudes" extortion that actually has content. If the sender has real material, paying still does not make them go away, and usually doubles the demand. You need a different playbook: preserve evidence, report to local law enforcement, and contact a support organisation listed in section 12.

Malicious links and "unblock my page" requests. If someone asks you to click a link to log in, verify, or unblock something, it's a phishing page. Ignore it. Type the real URL yourself.

Universal rules:

Never send money to a stranger you met on sextflirt.com.
Never click links in DMs without thinking.
Never "verify" yourself on a site you didn't find on your own.
Never believe a threat until it is proven real. Even then, do not pay.

8. MEETING SOMEONE IN PERSON

sextflirt.com is not a dating app and has no meeting feature, but some users eventually do meet off-platform. If you decide to, please apply at minimum these rules:

Meet in public first. A crowded café, a bar, a restaurant. Not their place, not your place, not an isolated location.
Tell someone. A trusted friend or family member gets the name, the profile URL, the time, the place, and an agreed check-in window. Set an expected "I'm home safe" time.
Get independent proof of identity ahead of time. A live video call in which the person matches their photos, and ideally something verifiable like a social account that is clearly real and has history.
Plan your own transport. You arrive separately, you leave separately, you control how and when you go home.
No intoxication on a first meet. Alcohol lowers all the defences this page has been asking you to keep up.
Trust your gut. If anything feels wrong, from the conversation before, from the first minute of meeting, from anything, you are allowed to end the meeting right there. You owe nothing to someone you just met.
Never meet someone who refuses to video-chat first, pressures you for intimate content before meeting, or tries to steer the meeting to an isolated location. Those are red flags, not negotiation points.

If after meeting someone you feel unsafe, remove the interaction from sextflirt and reach out to someone you trust.

9. PROTECTING YOUR ACCOUNT

Your sextflirt account is tied to an email or to a Google sign-in. Whoever controls that controls your profile.

Use a strong, unique password on the email account you registered with. If you can, enable two-factor authentication on the email provider.
If you signed in with Google, your sextflirt account is only as secure as your Google account. Turn on 2FA on Google.
Don't reuse the same magic-link email on shared or public devices where the login email is visible in someone's inbox.
Sign out of sextflirt on devices you don't control.
If you lose access to your email, act fast: recover the email first, then sign back into sextflirt.
If you suspect someone else has accessed your account, change the email password immediately, sign out all devices on Google if you used OAuth, and contact us through the footer form so we can help review the account.

10. REPORTING AND BLOCKING ON SEXTFLIRT

Every post, comment, and profile has a report option. Use it any time you see something that breaks our Terms or this page. Reports are reviewed by the moderation team and acted on case by case.

What reports are for:

Content that looks like it involves a minor, report immediately, we escalate this fastest.
Non-consensual imagery of yourself or someone else.
Scams, phishing, extortion, and fraudulent profiles.
Harassment, targeted abuse, threats, hate speech.
Impersonation, stolen photos, profiles pretending to be a real person.
Spam, automation, and bot behaviour.
Anything else that feels clearly wrong.

Bad-faith reporting, reporting profiles you dislike to silence them, mass reporting as a form of harassment, or false reporting to remove competing accounts, is itself a Terms violation and is acted on.

If a conversation with another user has become uncomfortable on an external platform, you can also block that user there. sextflirt itself does not host private messages, so most blocking will happen on whatever service the conversation moved to.

11. IF SOMETHING HARMFUL HAS ALREADY HAPPENED

If you're reading this after something has already gone wrong, take a breath first.

Actions that usually help, in roughly the order you should think about them:

Preserve evidence. URLs, screenshots, handles, timestamps, full message threads. Save it before it disappears. You do not have to look at any of it again right now, but you want it to exist.
Stop engaging. If someone is threatening you, blackmailing you, or pressuring you, responding does not help. Silence is a valid response.
Report to us. Flag content and profiles on sextflirt so we can remove and escalate.
Report to the platform where it's happening, if that's a different site.
Report to local law enforcement if there is a threat of physical harm, sextortion with a real demand for money, or any indication of content involving a minor.
Contact a support organisation from section 12. You don't have to deal with this alone and the people at those organisations have seen this before.
Talk to someone you trust. Shame is what extortionists and abusers rely on. The longer you stay silent, the more leverage they have. You broke no rules by trusting the wrong person.
Take care of yourself. Sleep, eat, move. If you have a therapist, contact them. If you don't and you need one, the organisations below can help.

12. RESOURCES AND HELPLINES

These services are not affiliated with sextflirt.com, we are not paid by them, and we cannot verify every interaction you'll have with them. They are listed because they are widely recognised and free.

For intimate-image abuse and NCII:

StopNCII.org, free image hashing and removal help for adults.
Take It Down (run by NCMEC), for people whose intimate images were taken when they were minors.
Cyber Civil Rights Initiative (cybercivilrights.org), US-based legal referrals and helpline.

For content involving minors:

National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC), CyberTipline at report.cybertip.org.
Internet Watch Foundation (IWF), iwf.org.uk, reports from anywhere in the world.

For sexual assault, abuse, and trauma support:

RAINN (US), hotline at rainn.org.
Samaritans (UK), samaritans.org.
International Association for Suicide Prevention, iasp.info, directory of hotlines by country.

For sextortion and online fraud:

FBI IC3 (US), ic3.gov.
Action Fraud (UK), actionfraud.police.uk.
Your local police cyber crime unit.

None of these organisations will ever ask you for money.

13. CONTACT

For urgent safety issues on sextflirt.com specifically, content removal, non-consensual imagery, impersonation, extortion in progress, use the report button on the relevant content AND the contact form in the footer with a clear subject line like "URGENT SAFETY". We prioritise these.

For copyright takedowns, use our DMCA page.

For general questions about this page, contact form in the footer, and we'll get back to you.

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