Community Guidelines

The kind of place we want this to be
Principles we run on
What makes a good post here
What gets in the way
How moderation actually works
Our side of the deal
When something feels off
A final note

These are our community guidelines: the spirit behind the rules, not the rules themselves. The formal rules live in our Terms of Service, and safety details live on the Safety page. This page is for the stuff in between: what sort of place we're trying to build, what we expect from the people using it, and what they can expect from us.

Keep it close to hand. The more people treat each other the way this page describes, the better the whole Site gets for everyone.

1. THE KIND OF PLACE WE WANT THIS TO BE

sextflirt.com is a directory of adult content made by adults, for adults. It's a place to discover creators, share what you make, find the corner of the internet that matches what you're into, and move on when you're done.

It is not an argument, a marketplace, a casting couch, a hunting ground, or someone's 1-on-1 inbox. It's a public square for grown-ups who understand that anything they post is, well, public.

The short version of the vibe:

Come for content, stay for discovery. People are here because they're curious. Give them something worth finding.
Treat strangers like future regulars. The person scrolling past your post today might be a loyal follower tomorrow. How you show up matters.
Be the user who, if everyone behaved like you, would make sextflirt feel welcoming. If that's obviously not you today, leave the comment unposted.

2. PRINCIPLES WE RUN ON

The rules in the Terms of Service can be derived from five principles. If you internalise these, you'll almost never bump into the enforcement layer.

Consent is the floor, not the ceiling. Nothing gets posted without the consent of the people in it. That includes photos, screenshots, memes using someone's face, AI-edited versions of real people, everything. Whether something is "technically legal" is the wrong question; whether everyone in the frame is on board is the right one.

Adults only. This one is non-negotiable. Any content involving a minor, any suggestion a minor is involved, any attempt to frame someone as younger than they are, is a zero-tolerance bar. Report on sight.

Honesty in the frame and out of it. The usernames you post are yours. The photos you upload are yours, or licensed to you. The person in the photo is who you're claiming it is. The caption is something you'd stand behind. If that sounds exhausting, you're probably overthinking a scam.

Respect is cheap and mandatory. Harassment, hate, piling on someone in comments, pressuring strangers, punching down at other users' looks, race, gender, body, country, or identity, is out. You don't have to like every post. You don't even have to leave a comment. Scrolling past is free.

Effort is its own reward. Low-effort spam, recycled screenshots, copy-pasted captions, and AI slop pretending to be a real person make the whole Site worse. A thoughtful post, even a simple one, stands out.

3. WHAT MAKES A GOOD POST HERE

We don't grade posts, we don't rank them by "quality," and we don't want sextflirt to feel like a competition. But if you're asking yourself what "good" looks like on the Site, here are the signals we see in posts that work.

It's yours. Content you made, with people (including you) who agreed to be in it. Originality is the strongest trust signal on a directory site.
The caption tells the viewer something. Even one honest sentence is better than three lines of unrelated hashtags. Captions are where personality lives.
The tags describe what's in the post, not what you wish was in the post. Accurate tags make search work. Spammy tags break it.
The platform you're pointing at is actually yours and actually active. Nothing breaks trust faster than clicking through to a dead handle.
It's paced. A profile that posts five times in an hour and then goes silent for a month reads like a bot. A couple of well-crafted posts a week reads like a person.

If you're posting as a creator trying to build a following, these aren't tricks. They're just what good publishing looks like on any content site.

4. WHAT GETS IN THE WAY

The quick summary of what gets content removed or accounts suspended. For the comprehensive list, go read Terms of Service §5.

Minors, in any form, any representation, any context.
Non-consensual intimate imagery and deepfakes of real people.
Content that promotes sex trafficking, escort services, or prostitution.
Scams, phishing, "I'll show you if you pay the verification fee" setups, crypto bait, sextortion.
Automation and bots pretending to be people.
Impersonation, catfishing, using someone else's photos.
Harassment, threats, targeted abuse, hate speech.
Posting that is obviously illegal under applicable law.

None of these is a judgement call for us. If you find any of it, report it.

5. HOW MODERATION ACTUALLY WORKS

We try to be transparent about this because "trust us" is a thing we ask of every user, and we want to deserve it.

Uploads are scanned automatically on the way in, looking for the things nobody wants on the Site.
User reports go into a queue that a human actually reads. The queue prioritises urgent things (minor-related, non-consensual, active extortion) first.
When we remove something, we try to remove it fast, even if that means acting on partial information and sorting out edge cases afterwards.
We don't shadow-ban people for disagreeing with us, for liking the wrong things, or for posting content we personally find boring. Moderation is about rule violations, not taste.
Severe violations are terminal. There is no warning, no appeal, no conversation about context. We would rather be wrong on the side of removing a legitimate user than tolerate a genuine predator for a second longer than necessary.

We won't always get the call right. When we don't, tell us.

6. OUR SIDE OF THE DEAL

You're trusting us with your content, your account, and a piece of your online presence. In return:

We won't sell your personal data. Not to brokers, not to advertisers, not to affiliate networks dressed up as "partners."
We won't run behavioural ad profiles on you. We use analytics to understand what works on the Site, not to follow you around the internet.
We won't hide or bury your content silently. If we take action on something you posted, you'll know something happened, even if it's just a post disappearing.
We won't demand money from real people trying to reach real support. There is no premium tier, no paywall to remove a slander, no "verification fee," no account revival fee. Any message claiming otherwise is a scam and we want to hear about it.
We'll act fast on anything that endangers a real person. That's the one class of problem we optimise response time for over everything else.
We'll keep this page and the Safety page up to date as the Site changes. When something moves, the documentation moves with it.

7. WHEN SOMETHING FEELS OFF

You don't have to wait until a rule is clearly broken. If something on sextflirt feels wrong, use the report button and tell us. Reports are how we learn about stuff the automated layer misses, and they're how we find patterns we'd otherwise never see.

If it's a safety issue specifically, the Safety page walks through what to do for the most common situations, including what to do if something harmful has already happened.

For legal process (DMCA takedowns specifically), use the DMCA page.

For everything else, the contact form linked in the footer is the fastest way to reach the team that actually handles these messages.

8. A FINAL NOTE

This page is a promise, not a wall of rules. The goal isn't to police every keystroke; it's to describe the kind of place we're trying to run and the kind of users we're trying to attract.

If you're here because you want to share adult content thoughtfully, discover creators you didn't know existed, and treat strangers the way you'd want to be treated on a site like this, you're in the right place. Welcome aboard.